“It hurts when having sex.” Do you find yourself saying that sentence? Sex should be fun and satisfying. It should feel good. But for some women, penetrative sex is painful. Yikes! Something that is supposed to be enjoyable and give people feel-good hormones is suddenly dead in the water when unwanted pain chokes off the fun. I’m so happy to be sharing that there is a solution to help eliminate the pain! I’m excited to share this tool so that people can quit being plagued by painful sex.
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Sex Should be Enjoyable, Not Painful.
There are other ways to enjoy sex and physical closeness with a partner other than vaginal penetration, such as oral sex, nipple play, cuddling and caressing each other, stimulating the clitoris and or penis, or anal sex. But if penetrative sex is something both partners desire to include in their sexual intimacy but it hurts, then intimacy can’t be at its best. I’m an affiliate for a sex toy company called MysteryVibe. I recently received an announcement from them that one of their products reduces pain from penetrative sex for those suffering from such pain. I was very excited to hear this news. Immediately, I wanted to spread this information around because I’m passionate about helping people have better sex, both solo and with a partner(s), improve their sex lives, and experience increased libido so they can enjoy their bodies and their interpersonal relationships.
That’s a lot of words for … I just want people to enjoy sex! Ha! Well, it’s true, I do.
Being limited by the fear of pain due to penetration during sex is a sad state to be in. This pain closes off a whole area of the body that can bring pleasure, namely the G-spot/internal clitoris. So, when something gets invented to help alleviate that pain, I have a giant urge to shout it from the rooftops. Woohoo! Let’s go!
What Can a Woman Do When It Hurts When Having Sex?
If this is you, what are the options?
- Ignore it and hope it goes away because she feels too ashamed to talk about it (I do NOT recommend this option).
- Try other forms of sex such as oral sex, nipple play, caressing/touching/cuddling for closeness, and/or anal sex. (Okay, those are great options. But a huge part of the clitoris is ignored with this option. As is the closeness that can be experienced between partners during penetrative sex, so I do NOT recommend this option either).
- Get Help. I do recommend this option!
What Does Help Look Like?
1. Sex Coach/Therapist
Hiring a sex coach/therapist is a great option. There are so many helpful therapists that can help with sexual relations, both for improving physical sexual issues and for relationship or emotional issues. The sex therapists/coaches offer one on one therapy as well as classes. I’ve interviewed many of them on my podcast. You can check them out here:
Or you can visit my Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast website to peruse the podcast episodes. Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast free to listen The podcast is also on apps such as Apple Podcasts, Spotify, IHeartRadio, and Google Podcasts to name a few.
On the Spotify app, I also have playlists. The one for Have Better Sex has all the episodes where I’ve interviewed Sex Coaches/Therapists. Currently, there are 33 1/2 hours of content that you can enjoy for free. My playlists are public so you can access them on Spotify. I hope the episodes help you out!
2. Try a Sex Toy.
This solution is what inspired me to write this article. MysteryVibe just released an announcement about how usage of one of their toys/tools, Crescendo, has resulted in a 480% improvement in pain scores for those suffering from painful sex. WOW! Now that’s some seriously positive results! The disorder that was studied is called Genito-Pelvic Pain & Penetration Disorder (GPPPD). They report “1 in 10 women suffer with GPPPD, a condition known to cause painful sex and difficulty with vaginal penetration. There are currently limited treatment options available for GPPPD, therefore, this news is unprecedented and potentially Quality-of-Life changing.”
For more information: “This was published in the highly esteemed Journal of Sexual Medicine, a first for a vibrator in the field of GPPPD.”
Quality-of-Life changing. Oh hell yes it is! I mean wow! That’s just outstanding, amazing, and unbelievably wonderful! This is a thing to be celebrated!
This sex toy is utterly amazing.
More About MysteryVibe:
I interviewed the CEO of MysteryVibe this year on the podcast and I was completely blown away by the technology they have developed. To listen to this interview, please visit: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10080476-ep-121-how-technology-improves-sex-an-interview-the-ceo-of-mystery-vibe
Back to the Sex Toy…What toy is it and what does it look like?
It’s called Crescendo. It’s utterly amazing. And there’s also a Crescendo 2.
Crescendo 2 is a Doctor and sexpert-endorsed vibrator. It is unlike any other, turning into a new vibrator every time with the customizable vibration patterns and the ability to bend into multiple shapes (this alone is kick-ass awesome). The Crescendo toys are vibrators you won’t get bored of! Designed to mimic the human fingers, precisely target your erogenous zones and find the shape that works best for you and your partner each time. Explore together and create an even greater sexual bond as you feel closer than ever before. Hit all the right spots – for you and your partner – every time, uncovering orgasmic sensations and resulting in climactic endings.
And yup, it’s great for enhancing pleasure for both men and women!
Yes! That’s totally amazing, right?
Crescendo is the light purple toy. When you look at it, you can see how bendable it is.
5 Reasons To Try The Crescendo 2 Vibrator To Reduce Painful Sex
Find the toy here: Crescendo 2
What a doctor says…
“It’s been reported that women have orgasms through nipple stimulation, clitoral stimulation, as well as vulva stimulation–and the Crescendo 2 can be used to trigger all of those feel-good areas,” says urologist and sexual medicine expert Dr. Rachel Rubin.
“This toy can do what a lot of other toys can’t,” Rubin says. “It’s firm yet malleable, so users are able to customize it to their individual needs. For the 75% of vagina owners who have reported experiencing discomfort during sex at least once, a vibrator like Crescendo 2 could improve your experience in the bedroom.”
There’s even an app so your partner can control it!
So not only is this toy helpful in alleviating sexual pain, but it’s also an enjoyable sex toy for everyday usage. As an added bonus, your partner can tease, pleasure, and stimulate you from across the room!
How fun is that! It’s so much fun! Yes, yes yes! Just think of the possibilities! Your partner can stimulate you from another room or right next to you. This tool creates an added layer of sexual tension and excitement that can make edging, and climaxing, even more fun together!
It’s Smartphone compatible to control remotely up to 10 meters/30 feet. You can also control all motors individually as you stroke your partner in real time with different vibration patterns that will leave your partner quivering with pleasure.
It has 6 motors: to feel every vibration and sensation pulsate through every inch of Crescendo 2 as you reach and uncover new sexual erogenous zones.
Personal pleasure is enhanced with the intensity of 12 pre-set vibrations. Love to have 12! Great variation and pleasure is possible with twelve modes.
Other Features:
It’s water-resistant so water can be a part of sexual play with this toy. So go ahead and take your exploration further by taking a dip – as Crescendo 2 is entirely water-resistant so there are no limits to your pleasure. Time for a bath or shower! Make it even more fun with this toy!
Other Resources to Learn about More Help for those who say, “It Hurts When Having Sex.”
https://mysteryvibe.com/pages/crescendo-doctor-endorsed
https://mysteryvibe.com/products/crescendo
I hope this article helps you. Please let me know if you try it out. I’d love to hear about your experiences. Now go and have some great sex! I sincerely hope you no longer say, “It hurts when having sex.” Let’s eliminate that sentence from your vocabulary.
Free shipping in the US on orders over $60 at MysteryVibe.com!
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