The Best Vibrator Clitoral Stimulation is …. drumroll please …. the ZUMIO X! I have almost forty sex toys. I’ve been reviewing sex toys for several years now and this is, hands down, the best vibrator for the clitoris. It has been heralded as a primo toy all across the internet and by big names as well (just check out their website, link below). The clitoris is the key to women climaxing as the vast majority of women don’t come from internal stimulation/thrusting as much as they do from direct clitoral stimulation. According to an article by Micheal Castleman, M. A., in Psychology Today, only 25% of women orgasm from vaginal sex (Micheal’s article) , so, this means the clit matters tremendously to a woman’s sexual satisfaction. Women need clit stimulation. Period. Want to please your female partner? The key is to pay lots of attention to her clit, in the manner she desires. This requires observing her reactions during sexual activity and ongoing communication. [Watch for my interview with Micheal Castleman coming to my podcast soon!] This toy is a perfect gift for Valentine’s Day, birthday, holiday time, or just because you want to please her (and yourself at the same time).
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But… it’s so small…YET OH SO POWERFUL!
Which am I referring to? The clit or the Zumio X? Both!
The clitoris seems small, but really it’s a whole system that occupies a woman internally as well, not just as the extra powerful mini button on the outside of her body. Micheal Castleman discusses this topic very well in his article on his website at https://greatsexguidance.com/the-clitoris-new-insights/ which is just a fabulously informative read and can literally change how you view sex. I won’t reiterate all he said, because he does it so well, but check out his article. Basically, the clitoris is a full system, not just the external small nub and yes, the infamous G spot is a part of the clitoral system and is not the only internal part of the clitoris.
Did you know that males and females essentially have the same sexual parts? They are just arranged/displayed in different ways. Plus, women have about double the sexual nerve endings in their clit that men have in their penis. So the clit is a very powerful organ indeed! The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, while the penis has 4,000 so the potential to stimulate and deliver pleasure to a woman via her clit is very powerful indeed! Check out the 3D images and animations of the engorged internal clitoris on the Center for Erotic Intelligence website:
https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/internal-clitoris/
https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/the-clit-disco/
Shared with the world by the amazing Mal Harrison, the Director at the Center for Erotic Intelligence: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/
In a few sentences, here’s why I love the Zumio X:
The small head of the Zumio X delivers such an intense unmatched sensation to the clit. Its small head is the perfect size fit to deliver extreme pleasure to the smallness of the external portion of the clit. It’s a match made in heaven! Blissful heaven!
The Orgasm Gap
Maybe you have heard of the orgasm gap, others call it the arousal gap. It’s the mismatch between the time it takes for males versus females to sexually climax. In a recent podcast interview, I published with the CEO of Promesecent (link to podcast episode Oh Fuck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast episode How to Have Better Sex ), we chatted about this very real and often disparaging gap. We talked about realistic ideas for how couples can shrink this gap for mutual pleasure. The average man climaxes after around five minutes (or less), the average woman climaxes after about 18-20 minutes. The goal is to close this gap, somehow shrink it. We need to pay attention to this gap, and treat it as a reality so both partners can climax. Foreplay is a great way to close this gap and sex toys are also a great tool to help couples achieve this as well.
As I mentioned above, I have close to forty sex toys. I try them out. Review them. Promote the ones I like. The truth for me is I’m an external clit junkie. With the use of sex toys, and a lifetime of sex, I have learned my body’s needs to climax … and it heavily (almost solely) depends on the external part of my clit. Both internal G spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation combined are the best way for me to reach climax, but I can climax with external clit attention alone. And the Zumio, the toy I mentioned at the start of this article does just that.
Yet, every woman is unique and different and she must explore her own needs and stimulation points. Through adequate sexual play and foreplay, with and without sex toys, she can learn her own body.
The Zumio Sex Toy
There are several reasons why I love this toy. Not only is it powerful, with a very directed stimulation ability, but it’s also a toy that can be used entirely externally, and quickly, to get a woman off. There are many people who would benefit from such a toy and since I love promoting sexual wellness in all people, this is a toy I want to promote. And heavily. I also love the design of this toy. And for me, the really cool thing about this toy is it was designed by women, for women. It was designed by people with clitorises, and to me, that is what makes it even better. Women know women’s bodies best. That’s just a fact. They have the knowledge and have felt the sensations, this is a win-win combo for sex toy creation. And they’ve nailed it.
The compact slender design of the toy is a wonderful bonus as well. It’s a very quiet toy too, the quietest toy with a motor I’ve ever encountered.
The Zumio is Powerful, A Small Head with a Strong Punch
This toy has a very small head, but it packs so much power it’s mind-blowing. When I first opened the toy, I was literally shocked at how small the head appeared. I was apprehensive that such a little head would work because it has such a small surface area. But that changed very quickly for me once I tried it out. The toy has 10 strength modes. The higher the level, the faster I reached my climax. Good things come in small packages, and that is most definitely true with the Zumio. And trust me, Zumio will get you there fast!
Zumio: A Tool To Close the Arousal Gap
The goal of sex should be a climax for all involved. Or, multiple climaxes in the case for us lucky women (and for some men, this is possible too). While this can be a challenge at times for various reasons, sex toys can really be an amazing tool to help all people in the sexual encounter enjoy to the max, and reach orgasm.
My experience:
I held the little wand in my hand, at the ready to experience all the toymaker promised. Would it happen? I wasn’t sure. But to my total amazement, the Zumio toy helped me climax so quickly that I was literally shocked. I realized quickly that this is a toy that can help close the orgasm/arousal gap I mentioned above.
The toy feels great on the external labia, vulva, and external portion of the clit as well. Please note: it’s made for external use.
Easily Use It During Sexual Intercourse or In Combination With Other Toys
Women, want to climax during intercourse? This toy will make that possible for you.
Since the Zumio X is slim and held to the external portion of the female clitoris, it’s easy to use either during intercourse or with an internal toy. It’s so slender, the toy is easily held to the clit during many sexual positions to maximize the female’s pleasure. The woman could hold it on her clit during vaginal sex in most positions, or her partner could alternatively press it to her clit. In these ways, this sex toy is a fabulous promoter of better sex. Sex toys should be viewed as tools, not as competition, but most certainly considered enhancements for the sexual experience both for the person with the clitoris and their partners.
Who Will Benefit From Using Zumio?
This is extremely beneficial for reaching a sexual climax for many people with clits, both healthy individuals and those with limiting health conditions. Not only will it help couples without medical issues to enjoy more and faster climaxes for the female, but it will also really help those who have medical conditions. What came to my mind was how this sexual tool will help disabled persons who perhaps cannot partake in long sexual encounters, or for those who have physical limitations for hand manipulations. For those with medical limitations that hinder how they can enjoy sex, a toy that gets them to climax faster will not only improve their sexual health, but it will deliver the many benefits experiencing an orgasm has on the body. These include a better sense of well-being, fuller enjoyment from a more fulfilling quality of life, deeper intimacy with a partner, and stress relief.
The female’s partner will also benefit from using this toy not only in a boost of confidence in the ability to satisfy her, but also in the good feelings brought on by being able to do so. In being able to help her reach climax more efficiently, and possibly more often, with this toy, both partners will benefit immensely. This ability delivered by the toy helps promote greater intimacy and therefore improves the overall relationship.
Ergonomic Design
Zumio is a very ergonomically friendly design. The wand is very slender and easy to hold and control. I love how it just fits in my small hand so very easily. The little infinity sign on the Zumio X makes it very easy to switch between the levels with just a press of the finger. This is important during use to optimize the experience and not have to remove the toy to change between modes. The raised eight-shaped buttons make it easy to just feel your way around the controls and not have to physically look at them. This is important for a woman using it on herself because she can easily knock the strength up or down a notch without having to remove the stimulation.
The Zumio X is Easy to Care For
This toy is easy to clean with soap and water. A simple swipe of soap and a rinse with water and the cleaning is done. The charger port is a little cup that the handle is placed in, which makes it easy to simply drop the toy into the port for charging. I leave the little cup charging port plugged in all the time and just drop my Zumio X in it to recharge when I’m done using it. The recharging port is a very convenient design, and so easy to use. It comes with a little plastic sheath cover that can be left on or not during the recharging process.
Want to try out the Zumio?
Which model is right for you? Read below and find out! I love this illustration because it clearly shows the size of each model.
https://myzumio.com/shop/zumio-x/
https://myzumio.com/shop/zumio-e/
https://myzumio.com/shop/zumio-s/
This guide should surely help you pick which model is right for you, or for your partner. Now, I must try the E model since it’s the most intense. I really can’t imagine anything more intense than the X so E must be explosively mind-blowing! Seriously, I can’t wait to try it out!
I hope you have found this review helpful. I will be reviewing the Zumio verbally on my podcast soon!
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