BDSM femdom and female domination are the sexy key threads that tie together all the stories in the anthology HE WILL OBEY, edited by Jay Willowbay. EM Scarlett is one of the authors of a deliciously wicked hot BDSM femdom tale inside the book. I smiled the entire time I read her story, it’s sexual lava. EM Scarlet is a switch herself and writes under this pen name delving into her fantasies while using her real-life experiences. Read all about her in this interview, learn her sexrets…haha! My website so I can make up words if I want! She’s got a hot liquid mind to ooze all over you with her words, to exquisitely push you to that Domme or sub edge. Read on and check out Amazon for the seethingly scorching eroticism that lies inside the anthology He Will Obey.
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I’m thrilled to be hosting my co-author EM Scarlet for an author interview. Here are my favorite lines from her story:
“If he got any more excited, it would become almost impossible for the chastity device to be put on.”
“She couldn’t work out if the tortured groan that ripped from him was caused by the verbal teasing or this more physical teasing, but it made little difference either way.”
I let my wicked evil naughty smile spread as I read these lines … just can’t stop myself.
UPDATE! He Will Obey won second place in the Golden PIgtails Smut Award taking the Silver Pigtail award. We are so honored and excited!

The Silver Pigtail Award Alexa Sommers 2020 Golden Pigtails Smut Awards
BDSM Femdom Female Domination Author EM Scarlet Gives us her juicy details…
This is my favorite line from her bio: They have no idea that she is a switch writing kinky erotica based on both her personal experiences and her vivid imagination.
They being the people in her life. Such a sexy sentence because sexual secrets are fun and hot! Fantasies come alive! (To read the rest of her bio, check the end of the post.)
What is the title of your BDSM Femdom story in the anthology?
Endless Pleasures
What is your name/pen name? Why do you write under a pen name?
My pen name is EM Scarlett. As an erotica author, I decided that I be happier to have an air of anonymity so that people I know in real life couldn’t trace my kinky writings back to me!
Why did you choose to write erotica?
Honestly, I’m not even sure that it was a conscious decision that I made. It just seemed to happen that way. It helps that I have been interested/involved in BDSM for a few years and so I am following that famous piece of writing advice – I’m writing what I know.
What genres do you like to read?
At the moment, my favorite genres are romance and erotica. But I tend to go through phases of what I enjoy reading. In the past, I have had phases of devouring urban fantasy, historical non-fiction, horror, crime/mysteries. So my tastes are quite eclectic.
Do you have a favorite character/story/book that you have created?
Probably my favorite story so far is one called The Cruel Hand of Fate, which is the last story that I wrote. It is a femdom story that shows off my more wicked side, so it was a lot of fun to write. The story can be found on my blog here: The Cruel Hand of Fate
Which authors do you admire?
In terms of BDSM erotica, I have always been a big fan of Tiffany Reisz and her Original Sinners series. But this year, I have been reading a lot more indie authors and have come across some amazing writers who are inspiring me to want to write more and to want to publish my own works. Some of my favorites are Travis Beaudoin, Alexa Sommers, Mazzy J. March and Lila Mina. But on top of those, there are many more authors who I follow on Twitter who I haven’t even read yet, but just reading their tweets and watching them on the journey of following their dreams to become an author is inspiring me on my own journey.
How did you decide on the idea for your anthology story?
It was just an idea that I had been wanting to write for a while and when I found out about the anthology it seemed like the perfect place for the story. And luckily, it got accepted!
What was the most challenging aspect of writing this story for the anthology?
Honestly, my own fear was probably the greatest challenge for me. It was my first attempt to write something that I knew would be submitted to somebody else and so I ended up putting a lot of pressure on myself because I wanted it to be perfect. This led to a lot of procrastination as, in my mind, if I don’t start then I can’t fail. But once I gave myself a stern talking to and actually started writing, then the story flowed surprisingly easily.
What other things have you written/authored?
I do not currently have any other published works. But I do write short stories which I share on my blog, and I also write erotic poetry which I share either on my blog or on my twitter page.
How long have you been writing?
I started writing maybe five years ago now, except it was not something that I gave a lot of time or attention to. Therefore, I would only produce a short story very occasionally. Or, perhaps more accurately, I would start a short story and then leave it unfinished, deciding to start a new story the next time I wanted to write something a few months later. But earlier this year, I decided that it was time to really focus on my dream of being an author, and so I have been writing more seriously since April.
What is your definition of success as a writer/author?
Oh, I haven’t really given this much though up until now. The first thing that comes to mind is to be able to earn enough of an income from writing that it can be a full-time gig. I would love to be able to do this and devote more time to my writing. But I would also say that writing something that evokes some kind of emotion in the reader would be another important indicator of success for me. I want to be able to write stories that make the reader really feel something.
Describe a typical writing session for you.
My life has been so hectic lately that I’m not even sure that I have a typical writing session. I just grab as much time as I can with my laptop whenever I can.
Do you develop characters or plot first?
The plot is definitely the first thing that I work on when writing, and then the characters seem to fall into place as the story develops. But character development is definitely something that I want to work on in the future to improve my writing.
What are you working on now?
I am currently working on a short festive femdom story that I am hoping to publish on my blog some time before Christmas!
What are your short-term writing goals?
My short-term goals include organizing my schedule better so that I can have more time to focus solely on my writing, to become better at plotting, and to just write more.
What are your long-term writing goals?
I would love to write a novel one day, as opposed to the short stories I usually write. And I would love to have that novel published.
What are some of your non-writing hobbies and/or interests?
Does reading count??? It’s book-related but not writing-related! I have loved to read for as long as I can remember. I also really enjoy painting and sketching.
Author bio – E.M. Scarlett is an author and poet who has only recently given in to her temptation to write smut. She lives on the south coast of England with her two children and, to the people around her, she appears to be an innocent and quiet woman. They have no idea that she is a switch writing kinky erotica based on both her personal experiences and her vivid imagination.
Blog – www.emscarlett.wordpress.com
Twitter – https://twitter.com/EMScarlett1
You can find the BDSM Femdom/female domination anthology He Will Obey here:
It is available in paperback and as an ebook.
My short story in the anthology is called “Harley’s Peeping Punishment” and it falls immediately after EM Scarlett’s story. My tale in the anthology is about a sexy MILF who catches her neighbor boy, who is technically a man now, peeping in her window while she prepares her bath. She invites him in upon discovering him, much to his utter delight, and she teaches him a lesson he will never forget.
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Read about the other authors in the anthology here:
Femdom Control: An Author Interview BDSM
Read my coffee shop sexy story here: Sucking Nipples at The Licking Sip Coffee Shop
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